To become self-reliant can be difficult. On a nearly daily basis, I get ads from people offering a free webinar or training on how to create a business and become rich that promises to give you live the life I've always wanted.I've gone to some and I've learned new things from them. I often want to purchase their courses, but a lot of times I don't have the money. The reason for that is for the same reason I'm also very different than people advertising those programs. Family.